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Let's Get Real: There is No Ethan by Anna Akbari

How Three Women Caught America’s Biggest Catfish

2025-08-18 18:00:00 2025-08-18 19:00:00 America/New_York Let's Get Real: There is No Ethan by Anna Akbari In 2011, three successful and highly educated women fell head over heels for the brilliant and charming Ethan Schuman. Main Library - Adult Program Room

Monday, August 18
6:00pm - 7:00pm

Add to Calendar 2025-08-18 18:00:00 2025-08-18 19:00:00 America/New_York Let's Get Real: There is No Ethan by Anna Akbari In 2011, three successful and highly educated women fell head over heels for the brilliant and charming Ethan Schuman. Main Library - Adult Program Room

Main Library

Adult Program Room

In 2011, three successful and highly educated women fell head over heels for the brilliant and charming Ethan Schuman.

Unbeknownst to the others, each exchanged countless messages with Ethan, staying up late into the evenings to deepen their connections with this fascinating man.  His detailed excuses about broken webcams and complicated international calling plans seemed believable, as did last minute trip cancellations. After all, why would he lie? Ethan wasn't after money — he never convinced his marks to shell out thousands of dollars for some imagined crisis. Rather, he ensnared these women in a web of intense emotional intimacy. After the trio independently began to question inconsistencies in their new flame's stories, they managed to find one another and uncover a greater deception than they could've ever imagined. As Anna Akbari and the women untangled their catfish’s web, they found other victims and realized that without a proper crime, there was no legal reason for “Ethan” to ever stop. “There is No Ethan” catalogues Akbari's experience as both victim and observer. By looking at the bigger picture of where these stories unfold — a world where technology mediates our relationships; where words and images are easily manipulated; and where truth, reality, and identity have become slippery terms — Akbari gives a page-turning and riveting examination of why stories like Ethan's matter for us all.

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